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Disconnect

A slower way to connect

A slow, trust-first space for the people who hesitate to reach out — not the ones already overflowing with matches.

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The story behind it

The idea for Disconnect came from a deeply personal moment. After going through a breakup, I started feeling emotionally disconnected and isolated — even when surrounded by people. One evening, I went alone to the beach hoping to clear my mind. Everywhere around me were groups of friends, couples laughing, families talking. But among them, I also noticed a few people sitting alone.

One moment stayed with me. I noticed a girl sitting quietly by herself — calm but distant. For a second, I genuinely felt like approaching her. Not to flirt. Simply because I wondered if she might be going through something similar. Maybe she also felt alone. Maybe she needed someone to talk to without pressure.

But I stopped myself. Not because I didn't want to — but because modern social dynamics have made genuine approaches impossible to separate from unwanted intentions. I had no idea what emotional page she was on.

"This is for the hesitant, the tender-hearted, the ones who want to be seen slowly."

The problem isn't that we don't have enough ways to connect. It's that we connect too fast, too often, too shallowly. We swipe through people like products. We perform instead of being. Disconnect is the opposite — a space where connection happens at the pace of trust, not the pace of an algorithm.

What we believe

Slow over fast

No swiping. No instant gratification. Some things are worth waiting for.

Depth over volume

One real conversation is worth a hundred superficial ones.

Vulnerability over performance

You don't have to be impressive here. Your honesty is enough.

Trust over convenience

We built the friction back in because shortcuts lead to shallow ground.

How it works

01
Write your story

Three slow prompts. What changed in your life recently? What are you trying to heal from? What kind of company would feel safe right now? No profile optimisation. No photos. Just words.

02
Tomorrow, meet 3–5 people

Every morning, 3–5 people whose stories genuinely rhyme with yours appear in your feed — matched by emotional terrain, not appearance. Each comes with one sentence explaining why: "You both wrote about losing your sense of self after long relationships ended."

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Choose one. Or none.

One reach-out per day. If they reach back, a 48-hour conversation opens — quiet, intentional. Both can consent to voice notes or plan an in-person meetup. No pressure to respond instantly.

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Or gather in a group

Not ready for one-on-one? Join a stranger group — small rooms of people matched by shared emotional themes. A quiet space to talk, listen, and simply be in the room with others who get it. No performance required.

05
Close the chapter

After 48 hours, the conversation closes with an exit ritual: Did you feel understood? Did you meet? Would you reconnect? If both say yes, the door opens again. No ghosting. No awkward lingering.

Why not just use Tinder?

The more options people have, the lonelier they get. The more efficient discovery becomes, the more disposable each interaction feels. Disconnect doesn't try to fix that loop — it steps out of it.

Dimension Tinder / Bumble Disconnect
First impressionA photo judged in under 2 secondsA paragraph someone wrote about what they're going through
Daily volume50–500 swipes per day1 chosen match per day, maximum
PhotosMandatory, front and centreShared only at the in-person meeting, if both want to meet
Conversation windowOpen indefinitely — chat forever or ghost forever48 hours, then a closing ritual. Clean endings.
Matching logicWho liked your photosStories matched by emotional resonance, not appearance
What it optimises forTime in app, retention, revenueGetting you off the app — and into a real conversation
Success looks likeMore matches, more messagesDid you feel understood? Did you meet someone real?

Built. Tested. Live.

Disconnect is a working alpha — not a concept, not a landing page with nothing behind it. Every feature below is real and running.

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match per day, maximum — the constraint is the feature
48h
conversation window — every chapter has a clean ending
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platforms — Android, Web, iOS (coming soon)
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ads, boosts, or Super Likes. Ever.
Story-based onboarding
AI emotional matching engine
Realtime 48-hour conversations
Exit ritual + reconnect flow
Anonymous Explore feed
Push notifications
Android & Web — available now
Stranger group meets & talks — coming soon
Voice notes — coming soon
iOS — coming soon

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